After watching this video, I started thinking how the self-help industry has been affecting our society. I am not against people learning from media; in fact, media has a substantial part in our learning. However, I have no support for self-help books, shows or lectures, whatsoever. It’s not just that I believe they are completely worthless, I feel it also pushes people to stop thinking for their problems and coming up with their own solutions. After all, I know myself better than Tony Robbins’ generalized comments. It should also be noted that Robbins is not licensed in any psychological sciences; so, what really makes Robbins superior than the rest of us? He wrote a book on how to make a marriage last a lifetime, and then he divorced his wife and got married to his girlfriend who is half his age. I don’t want to make any judgmental comments about his personal life, but as he’s not a trained professional, who would want help on marriage from a divorced person? Tony Robbins is just an example of the rapidly growing self help industry. There are self help books about anything in bookstores. On TV there are reality shows that people join to face their challenges and the so-called experts on life help them get better. Maybe there are people that find these books, shows or seminars helpful and inspiring; however, I just believe the industry manipulates people’s problems and makes it even worse by not giving them a chance to be strong enough to figure it out by themselves.

